Nancy and I have always been close. From the moment we met at a trade show in New York we shared confidences, stories, and advice with each other, and as time went on and we became married partners in life, we worked through the trials and tribulations of life together without so much as a tissue between us.
Of course, there have been disagreements and even fights between us. Those are part of a close relationship over a long period of time in which the partners are also strong in their beliefs and have strong personalities.
But when the stroke happened, beliefs and personalities didn’t matter to Nancy. Taking care of me mattered to her.
The day after the stroke she went and found the Acute Rehabilitation Unit in Dominican Hospital and got me a bed there. And it was no surprise that she got me slotted to stay there for three weeks instead of the standard two. Nancy visited every day during those three weeks, bought clothes appropriate for living in the ARU, and brought me some favorite chai tea latte from Starbuck’s.
She made changes to the house that would make it easier for me to get around in my wheelchair. She replaced me at the stove and proceeded to serve up three delicious meals a day and a snack or two. She found a caregiver who comes in every morning to bathe me and get me going for the day and help me with walking and other exercises.
Now that the maladies of the stroke have expanded, and I need more care, she’s giving it . . . more and more as the days go on. And, when difficult decisions must be made, she offers wise counsel, without which I don’t know how I could ever move forward.
How very nice of you John for your kind remarks about your very special relationship and love for Nancy. You two are indeed a very special team. Best wishes always, Helen
Nancy is no doubt, the best thing that ever happened to you. A great lady in every way, and a suitable foil for some of your wackier ideas. Kudos to her for stepping up and taking charge so well, while, at the same time, enjoying a period of great success in her professional life.
A good life companion is a richness beyond measure. You are fortunate to have Nancy in your life.
Nancy, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for the care and love you share with John. You are so amazing….so above terrific, and I know it comes from your loving nature. It’s hard being so far away and knowing what a wonderful person you are supports my heart’s wishes for John. Thank you so much. Sending a hug. Love, Mareli
booful, John and remember you’ve made a great recovery! one of the things I learned recovering is: local pool based aquatic programs go a long way in helping regain balance and self confidence, as did an adaptive PE class
Well said!🙏